1 Peter: 6-7 and 10 say: “So humble yourselves under the mighty power of God, and in his good time he will honour you. Give all your worries and cares to God, for he cares about what happens to you.” “After you have suffered a little while he will restore, support, and strengthen you, and he will place you on a firm foundation.”
There is something remarkable about the idea of suffering and God allowing it. There is a reason He wants you to feel it, it is because in our brokenness He finds us the most pure and honest and in need of Him. If He never allowed us to suffer, we would take His love for granted and never truly understand why He came and gave His life for us.